My Mother

My mother had her 97th birthday a little over a month ago, although she doesn’t know it. In fact, Mother is aware of very little these days. She knows me most of the time, although she frequently can’t think of my name. Sometimes she thinks I’m her grandson or her father or brother, but usually she knows I’m her son.

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Mother holding her 95th birthday cake

Mother lives in a small assisted living group home, along with four to six others, depending on how recently someone has died. She’s been there almost five years, and she’s been the oldest resident almost the whole time.

There was a lady there a couple of years ago who died a couple of weeks before her 100th birthday. She retired from cutting hair at age 90.

Mother retired over 30 years ago from her career as a social worker. That career was a natural for her, since she’s always wanted to help anyone around who needed anything. Until her 90s, she was always the one who jumped up to wait on everyone and never asked anyone to do for her.

She quit walking shortly after she moved into this home five years ago. Now she can’t even stand with someone helping to hold her up. They have to lift her in and out of her wheelchair—not too difficult, since she probably doesn’t weigh 100 pounds these days.

Sometime in the last few months, Mother pretty well quit eating. She chews her food for awhile and then spits it back onto her plate. I know, not very appetizing. She makes exceptions for cookies, ice cream, and such. She’ll swallow them.

Her memory is non-existent. When she asks a question, she may remember the answer for two or three minutes, or she may ask the same question again as soon as you finish answering.

It’s funny what she does remember, though. She remembers Jesus. Can’t recall her mother or father or much else, but she remembers Jesus. If you ask her about her health, she’ll tell you Jesus gave her good health. She’s not in doubt about her source.

She spends her waking hours sitting in a chair, quietly singing “Jesus Loves Me” or “Jesus Loves the Little Children.” It might drive you up the wall to hear her sing those same two songs time after time, all day long.

For awhile it bothered me, and then I began to see God’s grace in her singing. She is reaffirming the importance of God in her life. She’s announcing to the world that, although she may not remember anyone or anything else, she remembers Jesus. Maybe He’s also reminding us He hasn’t forgotten her. He knows exactly where she is and will one day escort her to her place in heaven.

That’s a comforting thought to me. I know that regardless of all else, she knows who she is as a child of God. She knows Jesus is her Savior and that He is always with her. What a wonderful thing for her to keep on her mind.

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WordPress Family Award

My friend Sheri de Grom recently awarded me the WordPress Family Award. The rules for the WordPress Family Award are:

image1. Display the logo on your blog.

2. Link back to the person who nominated you.

3. Nominate 10 others who have had an impact on your Word Press experience and family.

4. Let the 10 family members know you have awarded them.

Following are my nominations for this award:

Catie Rhodes

Darlene Steelman

Jess Witkins

Julie Glover

Lara Schiffbauer

Nigel Blackwell

Renee Shuls-Jacobson

Sherry Isaac

Sonia G. Medeiros

Susie Lindau

I’ve followed each of these bloggers for quite some time now, and I can heartily recommend all of them to you. Click on any of them you’re not familiar with and sample the excellent writing available to you. You can’t miss with any of them.

By the way, if you go to Renee’s blog, you’ll find I’m missing an accent mark over the second “e” in her name. She knows I’m not smart enough to figure out how to get that mark on there. And you may find that Susie isn’t blogging as regularly as usual right now. In case you’re one of the few people on the planet unaware of it, she’s recovering from a double mastectomy right now, and I don’t think she’s quite up to a full-court press at the moment.

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We may not have it all together, but together we have it all.

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Why Prayer?

Ever wonder why Christians are admonished to pray? There are many places where the Bible tells us to pray. Matthew 7 says to ask (and keep on asking) and it will be given.

Doesn’t God know our needs before we’re even aware of them? Doesn’t He have provision made before we even ask? If He already knows all this, why does He expect us to pray? Why should I ask Him to heal me if he already knows my health needs? Why should I pray for a job if He already knows I need a job.

Does God need to be reminded of our needs? Does He have memory problems? I don’t think so. If He’s omniscient, that means He knows everything. And if He knows everything, He must never forget anything. So that can’t be the reason for all the prayer admonishment.

When I went to visit a friend with health problems recently, he and I and another friend were discussing this phenomenon. This man was thanking me, and my Sunday School class through me, for keeping him in our prayers, which is what brought up the subject. God is certainly aware of the man’s health situation, and yet we all three knew our prayers were important.

We concluded that the reason God wants us to pray about almost everything we do or need is not that He needs to hear it but that WE NEED to do it. We need to keep ourselves reminded that He is our source. If He just provided all our needs without any action on our part, it would be easy for us to forget Him and just begin thinking we get our needs met because WE deserve it. Our prayers keep our focus on Him and off our own abilities. Our prayers force us to recognize Him as the source of all we have.

Have you ever wondered about this—why God wants us to pray? What’s your take on this? Our readers love to hear from you, and so do I.

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Finding Meara

Ever set out to do a favor for a friend, something you didn’t expect you would enjoy, and then discover doing the favor turns out to be a real pleasure? I recently had this experience.

Lara Schiffbauer and I have never met, but she has become one of my best friends. When I sent out a request for beta readers for Fancy, volume one of my novella series, Lara was the only one to respond. She has now read and edited all the novellas in the series, and her comments have been extremely helpful to me.

Let me tell you a little about Lara.

imageLara Schiffbauer is a writer, licensed clinical social worker, mother of two, wife of one, and a stubborn optimist. She loves Star Wars, Lego people, science, everyday magic and to laugh. You can find Lara on several different social media sites, with all links listed on her website, laraschiffbauer.com.

When I first heard she was working on a novel, I decided I would buy it and read it in order to support her. When I learned later on that her novel was a fantasy, I gulped slightly, because that’s not a genre I enjoy. I think maybe my imagination is too limited for such things. But I bought the book anyhow and set about reading it. Imagine my surprise when I got into Finding Meara and discovered I actually enjoyed reading it.image

To keep her safe, Hazel Michelli’s parents never told her she was adopted, or that her birthplace was in an alternative land where magic and monsters exist. She found out the truth the day a ferocious winged creature stole her from her Denver apartment and delivered her to Lucian, the sadistic Lifeforce magician who happens to be Hazel’s biological father.

“Dysfunctional family” takes on new meaning when she learns Lucian must sacrifice a daughter to maintain immortality and take over the Realm. When Hazel’s younger half-sister disappears just days before the Rite, Lucian moves Hazel to the top of the sacrificial short list.

Afraid, yet compelled to protect her four-year-old half-sister, Hazel races between both worlds, searching for Meara while being hunted by Lucian.  Their lives, and the future of the Realm, leave her no room for failure.

If you have any interest in fantasies, get this book and read it. In fact, even if you aren’t a fantasy lover, you might enjoy Lara’s great writing and the suspense she keeps hanging over you as you read.

You can order this book from Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Apple and Kobo. Do it. You’ll be glad.

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Winners from last week’s drawing: Patricia Sands, A. C. Cockerill, and Kitt Crescendo. Email me at dnwalkertx (at) gmail (dot) com to let me know whether you want Heaven Sent or first three volumes of Fancy series and whether you use Kindle or Nook.

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We may not have it all together, but together we have it all.

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Church Growth

You know how sometimes when you sit by yourself in a restaurant you can’t help overhearing the conversation for an adjacent booth or table? You’re not trying to eavesdrop, but they’re just talking loudly enough you can’t avoid hearing them.

On such an occasion recently, as I sat awaiting the arrival of my breakfast companion, I heard a conversation between two pastors—at least, I assumed they were both pastors. Possibly one was a pastor and the other was a layman from another church. I don’t really know for sure.

Anyhow, they were talking about their respective churches and things they did or needed to do to make them successful. Everything they said involved measuring the success or lack of success in terms of church growth.

According to their discussion, a church with an expanding membership was a successful church, and one whose membership growth was stagnant or negative, was a failure. According to their logic, a huge megachurch must be a paragon of success, while a small church was inherently a failure.

We carnal human beings do tend to think in such terms. Growth is good, and lack of growth is bad. We humans also tend to rate our leaders according to how successful they are at stimulating growth.

But is a church supposed to be a carnal human institution? Should it be judged by the same standards as, say a stock we’re looking to invest in? I think not. I think we miss the mark and do a disservice to our church leaders when we judge them by such yardsticks.

Have you heard the expression, “I am saved; I am being saved, and I shall be saved?” My salvation was established by the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ and cannot be won or lost by my own works. I understand that. It is the bedrock of the Gospel. But if that moment of salvation is the only event of spiritual significance in my life, I have missed the point.

That moment of salvation is the BEGINNING POINT of my Christian walk. Once I am saved, God begins a work in me of conforming me to the image of His Son. This is His work and not mine, but it is of great importance and will continue as long as I walk on this earth. This work of conforming me to the image of His Son is what is meant by the second part of the statement above, “. . .I am being saved . . .”

The third part of the statement, “. . .I will be saved,” refers to my death—or the rapture, if it should occur during my lifetime—when I will be perfected to stand before God looking just like His Son.

My own works had nothing to do with part one, my salvation, and will have nothing to do with part three, my ultimate perfection. So how about part two, my being conformed to the image of His Son? Again, my works can’t accomplish that. I can’t conform myself to His image. I can’t make myself more Christlike.

I do, however, have a part in this enterprise. My part is to submit myself to God and stay out of the way of the work He is doing in me. I can’t grow myself, but I can hinder my own growth by getting in God’s way—by insisting on having my will instead of His. Of course, we all do a certain amount of that, but the less we do of it, the more He can accomplish in us.

Given this, shouldn’t a church’s emphasis be on helping its members grow rather than on growing the number of members? Is a building filled with thousands of people who attend because they hear messages that make them feel good—that tickle people’s ears—a better church than one which a much smaller number of people are attend because they hear the true Gospel preached, drawing people to salvation and helping them to experience real spiritual growth?

This doesn’t mean that a large church is necessarily bad just because of its size, or that a small church is inherently good just because it’s small. My point is that the number of members or attendees, the size of the offering, the beauty of the building, and other such factors our carnal humanity tends to consider important are irrelevant in evaluating the merits of a church. The measure which I believe God looks at is whether or not the members invest themselves in one another’s lives and whether or not those individuals are growing in their relationships with Him.

Let’s forget about the growth of a church’s membership and pay more attention to the growth of its members.

Is your church wrapped up in membership drives, raising more and more money, beautifying and expanding the building where it meets, or is it more interested in seeing that individual members grow and flourish in their relationships with God?

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Blogging Milestone

This is my 300th blog since I started back in 2011. Actually, if I counted my early posts at David Speaks (http://davidnwalker.wordpress.com/), it would be number 310, but since that site is inactive, I’ll just call it 300.

Such a milestone calls for some kind of a party, so I thought I’d offer all of you some cake and ice cream.

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Since all I drink is coffee and ice water, that’s all I can offer you in the way of liquid refreshment s. I hope that’s not too disappointing. At least there’s plenty of it.

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Oh, wait—parties are supposed to involve presents. Let’s do this. Leave a comment, and I’ll put your name in a hat. I’ll draw three names out, and the winners will have a choice of either an e-copy of my Christian inspirational Heaven Sent or e-copies of the first three volumes of my novella series Fancy. If a winner already has one or more volumes of Fancy, I’ll substitute the next three.

I’ll announce the winners in next Friday’s blog. If you win, you’ll have 24 hours to email me and tell me which prize you want. If a prize goes unclaimed after 24 hours, I’ll draw another name.

I can’t go too far with the party announcement without thinking of my friend Susie Lindau. Susie’s one of the big-time cyber party hostesses, and she can’t attend today, because she’d under anesthesia having a double mastectomy. Most of you probably know she was recently diagnosed with breast cancer.

Being the dear person she is, she has managed to find humor even in her breast cancer, but I still think it would be fitting for us to pause the party noisemakers long enough to offer up a prayer for Susie. Let’s pause and do that right now. . . .

Okay. Thanks for your prayers for her. Now, Susie, your part in all this is to get well quickly.

Don’t forget to comment so I can enter you in the drawing.

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We may not have it all together, but together we have it all.

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A Call for Help

The Bible says faith without works is dead. Obviously, if you believe the New Testament, you know that good works won’t get you to heaven. Only believing in Jesus Christ and accepting His sacrifice will do that. However, once we have that faith and that salvation, God expects us to do good works—not as some penance, but simply as an outflow of His Holy Spirit within us.

Charity Kountz | AuthorToday, I’d like to present you with an opportunity to do a good work. My friend Charity Kountz is a writer, a mother, a wife and a Christian, not necessarily in that order.

Charity has a sweet six year-old daughter and an equally sweet twelve year-old stepdaughter. I’m not just taking the word of a prejudiced mother about that. I’ve been around and love both of these girls.

Charity’s husband does not have custody of his daughter, which is where the problem arises. In recent months, this twelve year-old girl has begun revealing some real problems in the way she is treated in her mother’s home. She has even talked about suicide as a way of dealing with the problems.

A twelve year-old girl contemplating suicide! That’s completely unthinkable, but that’s where this child is.Charity Kountz | Author

Charity and her husband Ryan have begun the process of seeking custody of the girl, but it’s not an inexpensive procedure. And it couldn’t come at a worse time for them financially. Ryan recently lost his job, and Charity is trying to get a consulting business off the ground.

In order to pay an attorney and court costs, they need to raise $2,500. To a lot of people, that’s not much money, but I’ve been unemployed before, and at times that would have been an un-climbable mountain for me. It is right now for the Kountz family.

Please search your heart and pray about whether God would have you help them out—$10, $50, $100 or whatever. Click this link to make a donation. You just might help save a little girl’s life.Charity Kountz | Author

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